Fattening others

Well yikes...

So my partner already knew what I like but it didnt affect me or them at all. It was a part that I kept hidden, just for myself.

Until they started to gain weight unintentionally and noticeably.
This got me excited and a sudden tingling started. I I started to grab their belly more and well they knew exactly why. After they tried dieting, I sorta made my move: suggestion.

Sure, I can try to get them like it, but in the end its their body, theyr choice.

I dont think the problem is telling them exactly what you like, the biggest problem is the aftermath: how will they take it and will it change ur relationship.

What did happen for me: I did make them my feedee for few months. After that no gaining, but stuffing sometimes and im quite satisfied with that.

I’m pretty sure my exbf was into this also… we never had an explicit conversation about it tho…

But one thing I love was the way he touched and responded to my body. It wasn’t overboard just authentic.

His encouragement, from appreciating the dresses I wore or reassuring me when I doubted I should wear certain clothing, to the physical touching, the way he overall treated me as a partner he respected and loved, enthusiastically wanting to fix me something to eat if I said I was hungry, bringing me my favorite snacks… all of that played a roll is helping me feel happy and secure.

I think if you have a secure relationship with her that a conversation won’t hurt either…

If she does mention losing weight against I’d ask point blank if she is saying that because that is what she thinks she’s supposed to say or if she genuinely feels that way and let her know you’re only asking because you support her no matter what and you have positive feelings about her gaining and that you’d be happy to have a more in depth conversation about that IF she ever wants to know more…

And then listen to how she’s genuinely feeling about it. Ask clarifying questions that encourage her to reflect on if it’s societies feelings or HER feelings.

Mostly just continue to love her.

You're not just Beautiful at any size.Not just Hot because of your gaining. You are deep thinking. Well written. And absolutely Brilliant. That has to be the best response I have Ever read on a topic I have viewed for over 20 years